If you want to laugh, just speak to the
person/people that are near you. You will never know that the person is best at cracking timely jokes. We cannot judge the book by its cover, and that is why you will
be amazed to know that a person that appears quite is rather actually fun. Auto-rickshaw drivers are the best comedians. If
you ask them a route to a place, they point out their left hands, but ask us to
go toward right. Of course, I have to mention one of my colleagues. He is one of the best at cracking jokes casually. Here is an example of his wit.
We usually will have a send-off meeting when someone leaves the company. Everyone will speak about his or her experience working with that person and wish him/her luck. When he (my ex-colleague) got his chance, he said looking at the person (who was his team lead), "Of course you have to leave man. Then how will we become team leads?"
We usually will have a send-off meeting when someone leaves the company. Everyone will speak about his or her experience working with that person and wish him/her luck. When he (my ex-colleague) got his chance, he said looking at the person (who was his team lead), "Of course you have to leave man. Then how will we become team leads?"
However, there are people that make sarcastic jokes such that we will be
forced to handle/face embarrassing situations. Some people will never know when
to speak what.
In an office, a man watches a lady going from
team to team for some work (may be some official work, and that is none of
anyone’s interest). When she comes near him, he asks her (in front of
everyone), “Don’t you have any work? You seem to be roaming here and there.” Just
imagine her situation. If you are in this situation, what will you feel? Many
people still don’t know that it is very bad to ask a person (at work) whether
he/she is free in order to help them. Everyone is of course busy with something
or anything at work. Isn’t it really silly to ask that question?
Even those can be handled, but when people around
you are egoistic, you will definitely have a hard time with them. Some people are
sadistic by being egoistic. They enjoy hurting others by their ironic
character. They will eat you out of their heads, that too, it is difficult to
handle the person when he or she is a close friend or a boy/girl friend, or
husband/wife.
Some people say that ego is innate, not acquired. Actually, it seems we tend to
develop that trait as we grow. However, being egoistic is not healthy that it
can affect one’s relationship. There are many stories of how one lost his/her
relationship only because of his/her ego. Ego is devastating. It hurts the people around you.
A pregnant woman expects her husband to spend
some valuable time with her, but her husband is always busy with his work, and
he could not spend time with her even in the weekends. However, she understands
his situation. She messages him in the morning after he reached his office (of course he never replies her), and
she calls him at lunch to speak with him, and she expects him to message or
call to inform her if he is gonna be late. The husband, but, could not act as
expected by his wife. He could not respond her properly when he is at office, because there might be a client problem, delivery problem, or any other problem
related to work, and of course the wife understands the situation and asks him
nothing. But, instead of at least apologizing for not responding her or
speaking about the day with her or asking her how she was doing the whole day,
or explaining his situation for not calling her, he does not say anything or
even care to explain his wife or comfort her. Is this egoism or laziness? Why
didn’t he just understand that his wife has feelings too.
People tend to lose interest to share or to love
or even care their (once) loved ones, because they are always near them or they live with them. But, I have
always wondered why. The things we used to love in a person become the things
we hate in that person after some time goes. We never understand the value of
people when they are around us. No one can take back the fact or can “Ctl+Z” when
one is hurt due to our actions (both physically and mentally). Once hurt is
hurt, as it always remains as a scar in one’s heart.
No one is going to take anything when he or she
passes away from this world. This is the common expression that everyone says today.
But, according to me, we should be missed by the people we loved the most. That is, we should take with us one's feeling of missing us when we go (of course I don't mean in a negative way). Life
is short and why make a hell out of it? According to me, it doesn’t mean that
one should have the qualities of Buddha or Gandhi to make that person a good person, but a good
person is the one that never hurts others by his/her egoistic attitudes.





